Hey real people!!! Would u pls read this carefully& advise me what 2 do??
Question by : Hey real people!!! Would u pls read this carefully& advise me what 2 do??
I’m an Indian 23 male. Presently working as an office boy in Abu Dhabi, UAE. As everybody I too had a lot of expectation about my life. I was a very good boy in my school days. I could pass my SSLC (10’Th) exam in a first class mark. But by many a reason I couldn’t perform in my +2 (12’Th) class. After my +2 I had a 2 to 3year’s break in my education. During that period I went in 2 an institute where I could learn Photography & Photoshop. Though I went 2 learn Photography I seemed 2 have interested in Photoshop. This is my problem (irresolute mind) that I would like 2 discuss with U. But by that I could be an accomplished Photo designer with short cut keys (a good speed). I don’t know what I lacked 2 not continue in the field. Then for a while I joined in an institute 2 learn X-Ray welding. Though I finished the course I didn’t even asked for my certificate by the reason some one told me that I would not be able 2 get a related job in Gulf countries with out a minimum experience of 5 to 10 years. I didn’t even enquire whether it was true or not. This is my problem (irresolute mind) that I would like 2 discuss with U.
Within this time my mind longed too much 2 get higher education. Then after 3 years I went in 2 my +2 school 2 buy my Transfer certificate & related papers!! I started 2 study again for BA English Degree course. I wrote my 1’st year exam well & yet the result published. Soon I wrote the exam I saw the advertisement that my company (supplying office boys) published in a news paper. By my lack of looking before leap I fell in their sub contracting trap 2 a very small salary. Now I understand something that caused me 2 fail in my life ambitions. But yet I couldn’t get a clear picture. This is my problem (irresolute mind) that I would like 2 discuss with U.
But U can’t blame me for all this completely. Because for all this impatiently moving, I had a reason that due 2 the bad debits that my family has in various banks. We have 2 make huge money for the interest itself every year. So I wished 2 overcome all this problems all of a sudden by getting a job abroad. Any way now I learned a lesson that we can’t make money with out a good profession or well education. So now I wish 2 try once more in those fields. Now I have decided 2 leave my family in a crisis by selling our home instead of bearing those bad debits & interests (only for a small period-after I got a good job can’t I replant them 2 an own house from a rent house?) Here is I need Ur helps 2 lead me in 2 light.
What I need 2 study now? Should I continue my BA? 2 tell U frankly now I have interest in neither education nor Photography & Photoshop but in computers.
Before U answer me 2 the question that “can I become a software engineer or even a computer operator”? U may need 2 know my stand in computers. I came 2 know about computers during my Photographical studies. Then itself I had too much interest in short cut keys. If so now I have a good speed 2 do any kind of program even without mouse. I mean that even though I see a program that I haven’t seen in my life before soon I will be able 2 understand this is this & that. By this interest itself I could learn a lot of short cut keys as well as Commands. Now what I’m telling U that I am able 2 operate a system & all the common programs like MS office, excel, etc without a mouse. I clearly know that these things only are not a qualification 2 be a software engineer. Then what I’m asking U that “do U believe I’m able 2 be an s/ware eng? If so what should I do? Or do U see any other field suitable for me? Or should I continue the job that I’m in now & try 2 solve the bank debits with this small salary & help my parents 2 not desert in 2 a rent house? Hurry pls advise me, I don’t know any thing what I should do
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truthteller69sdk@yahoo.com
Best answer:
Answer by Nel
First no one has the patiemce to read your BS here.. make it short …and try again
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July 6th, 2011 at 4:45 pm
Throw yourself into an oil well.
July 6th, 2011 at 5:39 pm
that was a long read, from the picture you painted, the first
thing you need to do is decide just one Goal and settle on
that regardless of boredom. That being said — go for it
July 6th, 2011 at 6:37 pm
You should pursue your dream and become a computer software engineer. It’s never too late to go back to school and learn something new.
July 6th, 2011 at 7:27 pm
Sounds like a good job for you if thats what you love. Go for it, follow your heart and it will tell you whats right. Noone else can tell you. All the answers are inside you. Take some quiet time and look inside yourself the answers will come.
July 6th, 2011 at 7:53 pm
from the length of your question (which I didn’t have the patience to read) you should be a novelist!!
July 6th, 2011 at 8:44 pm
I dont even know what the question was????
July 6th, 2011 at 8:56 pm
Well the world needs ditch diggers too
July 6th, 2011 at 9:41 pm
Not only can you not stick to any particular course you are a rambler too. You need counselling very badly and none of us here are qualified. You’ve got to get serious or else you will be seriously in trouble.
Go see a shrink asap. good luck!!!